The other night, when Tim and I ate this salad, we’d just come back from a few hours of driving through neighborhoods. Tim and I do a lot of driving through neighborhoods. You could say driving through neighborhoods is our thing.
I guess that’s good – that there’s a thing we have, you know, together.
When my friend Julie got married in 2006, I remember the pastor saying something in his homily about how every couple ought to share a hobby of some kind. “Tennis or cooking or sports,” he’d suggested, right there at the front of the church filled with people and flowers and music.
I hadn’t yet met Tim that day, standing up there with three other girls in blue dresses with cap sleeves, but I still like to think about the hobbies we were already sharing, even so.
In 2006, for example, I was baking batch after batch of biscotti for favors at that friend’s sit-down wedding reception. Meanwhile, the Ohio man I would someday marry was rolling out and topping homemade pizza crusts to keep in the freezer on hand. “Like frozen pizzas, but better!” he still says to me, describing that long-ago process in step-by-step detail.
Indeed, since we’ve met, Tim and I have had plenty of things, from loving the kitchen to loving quiet nights on the sofa to getting excited about properties we could dream to call home.
And so, the night we ate this creamy kale salad, we’d just returned from spotting one particular 1920s treasure of a foreclosure, with cedar shake details and original stained glass. (Too bad it’s already sold!
And when we came back home, to the work we’d abandoned and a house growing dark, big plates of this salad were the kind of thing both of us had in mind.
The recipe for the salad comes from a new-to-us cookbook, The Complete Guide to Naturally Gluten-Free Foods*.
I like the idea behind this cookbook so much. As the title suggests, it emphasizes recipes for naturally gluten-free foods: fruits, vegetables, meat, dairy, certain gluten-free grains. I like this because it focuses on all a person can have while being gluten-free instead of all the things he or she can’t.
I find I need more of this approach in all of life. In fact, I think that’s why the diet changes I started making in 2010 stuck so well: I didn’t feel like I was missing anything.
I mean, sure, I could bemoan the fact that I haven’t had [insert some processed food] in years. But I could also look at the colorful salad on my plate, both creamy and crunchy, a blend of almost-guacamole and leafy greens and seeds, and I could think of all I have instead.
It’s hard to feel disappointed when your plate is full. I suppose that’s a metaphor if ever there were one.
And, as we’ve been seeing lately, I could spend my days thinking about all the houses we won’t be buying and moving into (the “ones that get away!”), or I could be excited about the possibilities for other available homes in other available places, instead.
Years ago, when I was college senior, a friend of my mom’s asked me how student-teaching was going. Whatever I said was something akin to “good and bad.” I think I meant that I was surviving (good!). But I was also exhausted (less good!). But I never forgot her response.
“Eh, that’s all of life,” she said to me, wiping her hands with a towel. That’s all of life.
The truth is, Tim and I didn’t really care about the foreclosure being taken. We don’t miss most processed foods. But there are other losses – friends far away, dreams that have died – that take more thought to see the good in. Every beginning means an ending. Every choice towards something means a choice away from something else. This is life. This is good.
And so, we look at the full hands before us instead of the abandoned treasures beyond our reach, and press on, one step, one bite, one drive around a neighborhood at a time.Print
A creamy, colorful, flavorful kale salad with diced apples, pumpkin seeds, grated carrots and a smoothing dressing made with avocados and freshly squeezed lemon juice.
For the Dressing:
- 1 clove of raw garlic
- 2 avocados, peeled and pitted
- 1/4 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice
- 1 to 2 tablespoons water
- Salt and pepper to taste
For the Salad:
- 1 large bunch curly kale, stems removed, chopped into bite-sized pieces
- 1 cup grated carrots
- 1/2 cup pumpkin seeds
- 1 apple, cored and diced
- Start by making the dressing. Place a clove of garlic in the food processor (or, I suppose, blender) and pulse until fine. Add in the avocados*, lemon juice and a little water, along with dashes of salt and pepper. Blend. You want it to be a sort of thin guacamole texture – or a slightly thick dressing. Taste and adjust salt and pepper; feel free to add a touch more water to thin it out if you like.
- In a large bowl, combine, kale, carrots (I scooped the dressing out of the food processor and threw the carrots in next, without cleaning it first – easy!), pumpkin seeds and chopped apple.
- Pour the dressing on top and massage everything together well. Cover and let sit for 20 minutes or more in the fridge. Enjoy!
If there’s one tip I’ve clung to in the realm of kale salads, it’s this: massage. Massaging the kale (I like to use my clean hands) helps soften and tenderize it. Likewise, while most salads are best immediately after being dressed, kale salads like this one get better with a little time to marinate. Feel free to mix everything together and let it sit with the dressing a while – it will only make it better.
Adapted from The Complete Guide to Naturally Gluten-Free Foods.
*Are your avocado’s hard and need ripened? Use our tips to soften them up.
Keywords: kale, salad, avocado, lemon, apple, winter, cold weather, leafy greens
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Is kale your thing? Then try some of these tasty options:
- Butternut Squash and Kale Pasta Salad
- Coconut Ginger Roasted Kale with Beets, Farro, and Goat Cheese
- Pesto Pizza with Goat Cheese, Kale, and Mushrooms
*We received this cookbook as a review copy; as always, all opinions expressed are our own.
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Nutritional information derived from a database of known generic and branded foods and ingredients and was not compiled by a registered dietitian or submitted for lab testing. It should be viewed as an approximation.
About Shanna Mallon
Shanna Mallon is a freelance writer who holds an MA in writing from DePaul University. Her work has been featured in a variety of media outlets, including The Kitchn, Better Homes & Gardens, Taste of Home, Houzz.com, Foodista, Entrepreneur, and Ragan PR. In 2014, she co-authored The Einkorn Cookbook with her husband, Tim. Today, you can find her digging into food topics and celebrating the everyday grace of eating on her blog, Go Eat Your Bread with Joy. Shanna lives in Nashville, Tennessee, with Tim and their two small kids.